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Our Emotional Sensitivity to God's Heart

We are Endowed with Emotional 
Sensitivity to God's Heart
Unification Family Therapy, Yulian UTS, 2017

"Human beings are endowed with emotional sensitivity to the Heart of God.. so that after his perfection, he could breath God’s love perfectly.." - Divine Principle p. 80

I had many experiences with God. I visited the spirit world numerous times in attempt to understand God's heart and his principles. Could I? May be just a bit; But with each, higher and higher experience, I could see that one person was already there - Rev. Sun Myung Moon. Studying his life and teachings opens the way to discover our Heavenly Parent in our own hearts. As he says:

"God may be on a higher plane, if you call out to Him with a heart of love, "God!" He will respond to you in your heart, "What?" You then ask Him, "Where are you?" and He replies... "I am in the core of your heart." Sun Myung Moon

As I explained in another article (HOW TO STUDY THE SPIRIT WORLD), in 1985 Dr. Moon instructed elite scientists to study the resonance of spiritually gifted people. "If we delve into this area," he explained, "a world of new dimensions will be found." "Research on the frequency" will "enable contact with the spirit world."

Quantum Studies on Frequency can touch the Spirit Realms

Everything is frequency... all in existence. We a living in a universe pulsing in advance harmonics of vibrations. Each of your physical senses exists, because everything in the universe is vibrating. Physical senses are reading the vibrations and giving us a sensory perception of the vibrations. But there are many other levels of frequency beyond our sensory perceptions. Science today is studying them. And as Teacher Moon explains,  'the spirit world is a world of vibrations'.

Now is documented that there is an intelligent field of energy that underlies our physical reality. It doesn't work like electricity, so we didn't have the equipment to measure it. As Rev. Moon explained:

"The motions in the spirit world are all made up of vibrations. I instructed them to research this... existence of the spirit world can be scientifically proven. This can be done by discovering the frequency of vibrations used by spiritualists when they contact the spirit world." Rev. Moon's Instructions

Calming the mind to the Alpha frequency, gave to Silva Method practitioners control over the vibrations of the realms of a medium and a clairvoyant. Today we have access to the technology for measuring these high frequencies. This could only get accepted in the scientific world in the last decades. So we are only arriving at what Rev. Moon predicted, "If we delve into this area, a world of new dimensions will be found" and we will "enter the age where the unknown spirit world can be rationally understood" through this new quantum research.



The Field of Electromagnetic Frequency

These new studies are showing that the world is made of electro-magnetic fields. But they reveal that the human heart is the strongest biological generator of magnetic fields and electric fields in the human body.

There is no question within the scientific world anymore, it's a fact that we affect our reality. The question is how much, to what extent we are able to affect it and is it in a positive or negative way. But you should understand, whatever is in our hearts, will project in the world around us.

Our hearts produce 5000 times stronger electromagnetic field, then our brain. This field is a quantum mirror where the template of our thoughts, feelings, emotions, beliefs are projected. Everything that we experience through our hearts.

As we know from the Unification Thought, our Heart is the essence and the center of our Spirit Mind, where God dwells:

“God is at the center of your heart… God is the root of love.. we cannot feel Him.. because He and we are one. He is one with love.. to manifest God, you have to spread your love in all four directions.”  CSG Book 1. God p.28

To understand how important it is to live our lives in love, please have in  midn this; We create (generate) feelings (they are patterns) in our hearts and they extend over a mile around our bodies. The amazing part is, that the quantum stuff, that the universe is made of, crystallizes around this blueprint (template) to become the relationships, the carеer, the success or the failure, joy or suffering in our lives. Meaning, what projects from our hearts will become our reality.

Note: HEART RESONANCE shows clearly what's GOOD OR EVIL.. and it can be measured. Our thoughts, feelings and actions produce an energetic field, that becomes part of us. This Aura can be photographed and the character and the spiritual level of the person becomes visible. That's why on a subconscious level and spiritually we cannot hide our past life and identity. Read, HEART RESONANCE OF CIG

What we Project in our Environment

Yes, there is a field out there connecting everything and the projection from our hearts affects those around us. It affects not only our family, relatives but the whole neighborhood and the whole town. When our thoughts and feelings extend further in our prayers, meditation or thoughts, we influence positively or negatively the whole world. We are powerful creators; In quantum physics you see that if we believe we are passive observers, that's what we are. If we believe we are powerful creators, we become such. It's determined by what it is that we accept, what are our beliefs of the world:
"If we believe that we are powerless victims, things will seem to happen to us and we will see ourselves as victim. If we understand that we are one with the universe, we can be powerful creators. It's all in our judgments." Quantum Sensitivity
Satellites measured enormous picks of electromagnetic energy after 9/11 extending far above the surface of the Earth. Experiments were made, when the prayer of few affected towns and cities, to the point that for a period of time the crime stopped, incidents dissipated, illnesses were gone. Until eventually the projection from the more negative people again took over.

Resonate with God's Love

Our hearts tune to different resonance, in the same way a radio tunes into the various stations. Tuning our heart frequency to lower (selfish) or higher (unselfish) resonance will change our spiritual and physical state and health. As Rev. Moon says:
"Make yourself a tuning fork, resonating with and vibrating along God’s frequency. Resonate with God’s unselfishness." - Father On Spiritual Help
The Heart is expressed through the Intellect, Emotions and Will and they generate energy into the spiritual realm and the physical realm. This resonance automatically influences the way we think, feel and function. The main purpose of our physical life is to develop our ability to love and live for others. Now even science can measure the level of our heart resonance and thus show the level of our spiritual growth and the spiritual principles, that were invisible so far.

The chart of heart resonance clearly shows, how we grow from the resonance of children's heart, through the growth stage, to enter the realm of love, joy and peace, thus finally reaching to God's Heart. And as Rev. Moon explained, "The motions in the spirit world are all made up of vibrations.", so if we are not developed in our hearts, we will suffer, unable to breathe the love of God. Read, Age of the Union of the Spiritual and the Physical Worlds
"The sensibility of our spirit man is to be cultivated.. during physical life on earth.. Only when a person reaches perfection and is totally immersed in the love of God while on earth can he fully delight in the love of God as a spirit after his death." DP Creation p.49

We are all Linked in the Same Conscience

The most difficult time to make a change is when everything is settled and OK. But now the whole world is expecting some change, we are all linked in the same conscience and the foundation for this positive change is already here.
If we unite our forces together, then we can make a better world, a world of peace.” MODEL FOR THE IDEAL PEACEFUL WORLD
Study shows, that to make that lip are needed insignificantly small number of people - just one percent of the population. More than 30 nations are chosen for that change towards the Culture of Heart. In South Korea, an amazing community is forming around Ceong Pyong Lake's Peace Palace.

There you see a new pure, happy and creative culture rising among the thousands of young children living and studying in this peace complex. And this is only a glimpse into what's coming in the near future, when big communities of few generations start appearing everywhere around the world. In many nations already whole villages and towns are being educated together with their leaders, kings, ministers. Read more..
"We will consequently establish a world based on the unified culture of heart.. a world without war or conflict.. God’s Kingdom on earth and in heaven will be realized." Sun Myung Moon, CSG p. 1534
In the last 17 years, we have developed vast and very deep research on Unification Family Therapy (UFT) which in its essence is a Heart Resonance Therapy (HRT). It helped many struggling couples to see beyond, get out and get free and full of enthusiasm. Try! Invite us for a workshop or just few lectures.

Heart Resonance: The Healing Power of Love

Resonance of heart God's love Emotion Spirit world heart resonance true love resonance peace joy
Heart Resonance of Love 
Heart Resonance explained in the view of the Unification Family Therapy is so powerful, that can change your lives 

Unification Family Therapy / by Yulian UTS / 2016

Einstein discovered that everything is energy. All things exist and project different frequencies. At a cellular level,  our bodies work using energy for their functions and for communication with other cells. Now science embarks in the sub-quantum realm of our existence, approaching the spiritual. Just as Father Moon said, STUDY VIBRATIONS TO GRASP THE SPIRIT WORLD.

Now frequency research found that our hearts produce 5000 times stronger electromagnetic field, then our brain. This field is a quantum mirror of everything we experience in our hearts. The feelings we create are patterns in our hearts and they extend over a mile around our bodies. Next time remember how water crystals are influenced by our words and be careful what energy you are making part of your life.

What should we understand from that? First, we are beings of heart and love. Second, our essence is a spiritual one, transcending the visible matter. Third, our purpose in life is to develop our hearts - our ability to give love. And this ability, as you can see from these studies, is not automatic but something we have to develop with personal efforts.

That's why the Unification Principle explains that our SPIRITUAL HEART is the essence and the center of our Spirit Mind, where God dwells.
“God is at the center of your heart… God is the root of love.. we cannot feel Him.. because He and we are one. He is one with love.. to manifest God, you have to spread your love in all four directions.”  CSG Book 1. God p.28

If you look at this chart, the higher the level of development of our hearts the higher dimension of vibrations we exist in. That automatically connects us with different spiritual reality, and that connection will manifest in the life events we experience. All these frequencies from our thoughts, feelings and actions are embodied in our energy field. Thus we become embodiment of the vibrations we produce. And the more we develop our hearts the more we become embodiment of light, in unity with God's Heart.  




We create (generate) feelings (they are patterns) in our hearts and they extend over a mile around our bodies.


Levels of Heart Resonance - where are we?

All our thoughts and feelings produce certain quantum energy, that becomes part of our existence. They project into certain measurable physical resonance and affect our environment and reality.

The Heart Resonance of the average people today is around 200 Hz (humanistic level wavering between good and evil). That is around the top of the Middle spirit world. And the way humanity develops spiritually is when individuals with higher heart resonance pull the rest of us upward.

It was proven with research that one person at resonance of 500 Hz (Love) can positively change the frequency of 70,000 other people. One person at the vibration of 600 Hz (Peace) can affect 10 million people.  One person with the heart resonance of 700 Hz can positively impact 70 million people.

You are influencing your environment. You can actually change the World. This gives you a glimpse into the actual meaning of a Tribal Messiah (a person whose frequency elevates the hearts of others). Now you understand the real meaning of Trible Messiahship. Once you perfect yourself, you are automatically perfecting the world around yourself.

Tune your Heart to God's Frequency

Our hearts tune to different resonance, in the same way, a radio tunes into the various stations. Tuning our heart frequency to lower (selfish) or higher (unselfish) resonance will change our spiritual and physical state and health.  As Rev. Moon says:
"Make yourself a tuning fork, resonating with and vibrating along God’s frequency. Resonate with God’s unselfishness." - Father On Spiritual Help
The Heart is expressed through the Intellect, Emotions and Will and they generate energy into the spiritual realm and the physical realm. This resonance automatically influences the way we think, feel and function. The main purpose of our physical life is to develop our ability to love and live for others.

If lower resonance of fear gets stored in the body, the stress and tensions pile up. In time, this stressful frequency becomes more dense and substantial and sicknesses appear. This can lead also to nervousness and other relational problems. Yet, it is energy stored in the body. And now the body controls and subjugates the spirit. Thus you can understand the reality of mind and body unity. You have to mature to dominate what you produce, not be dominated by these frequencies. 

Love Develops through 3 Stages

On the other side, the resonance of Love can heal diseases and relationships. We are created to live constantly in the intoxication of true love. And this ability to love develops through the 3 stages: Formation, Growth and Completion.

It is in the Formation Stage of our development as a child that is essential to learn Empathy; develop our Emotional maturity. The child absorbs the emotional atmosphere in the family, without much rational judgment. Only in the next stage of development Intellectual development will become more dominant. And that's very important to give vertical stability to our emotions, to rationally understand the norms of what's wright and wrong. Will power is the completion stage of our character development, where all these functions of our spirit act in unity with concrete purpose. 


Each stage is very important foundation for the correct development of the next stage. Our heart is expressed through the functions of our intellect, emotion and will. As you see on this chart, they are developing gradually through the 3 stages. First, the child absorbs the emotions, developing the foundation of its heart. Second, it starts reasoning, thus learning to control and direct the emotions. Finally, one develops his will, to be able to express this love in actual good deeds. 

Only when one's emotions, intellect and will reach maturity, his heart can reach perfection.  The 3 levels of development (Formation - Child's Heart, Growth - Sibling's Heart, and Completion - Parental Heart) seen from the view point of Heart Resonance: 

1. Perfection of our Emotions
(Soul Frequency up to 200 Hz is on the Formation Stage of growth, corresponding to Formed Spirit level of development. People with such energetic level of their soul end up in the Middle Spirit World. If the spirits lower than that have only enough energy to influence one cell, Formed spirits already feel like a whole spiritual person, but their spirit senses are yet not developed to sense the Truth, so their individual-centered sense of righteousness leads to rigid, confined relationships and conflicts)

However, we have to clarify that originally this is the child level of development. Since the spirit mind is not yet developed enough, on that level one is governed by his physical mind (Read: Structure of the Mind). It's formation stage of development; immature - child state. Children have not yet developed their spiritual mind, so they depend on the loving environment, security and protection of their parents, who are supposed to be in the Completion Stage of Love resonance.

What happens when people are on this child-level of maturity and the environment lacks the protection of true parental love. When our spirit is in this Formation Stage (resonance of 50 to 200), if we allow ourselves to resonate in the realm of fear (resonance of 100), that will leads us down to doubts (resonance of 75). If we overcome the fear frequency we will elevate up to the resonance of pride (resonance of 170). 

This is the Completion level of the Formation Stage of Growth. The person's resonance is still under the dominion of the Physical Mind. Animal's mind matures to that level, since they don't have spirit mind. But our spirit mind will gradually start to prevail in the next stage of development. This resonance connects us to the Middle Spirit World. Think, people who are conscientious but materialistic, individualistic, pessimistic and humanistic. They are on that level.

Now you understand, why on this formation-level people are highly vulnerable and affected by the emotions of others. This provides the chance for gossiping, negativity and criticism to be easily spread. Mainly because the physical mind is unable to sense spiritually God's heart and the hearts of others. As a result, many could be drugged down in the satanic - unprinciple realm; under the influence of the evil spirit world. 

Even members are not immune against that. For this reason, Dr. Lee warns that many members end up in the middle spirit world. The Great Mother DMN also told us, that when she looks spiritually the majority of us are not ready to go to the spirit world and will stay stuck in the physical. 

Perfecting that formation-level means to develop the heart of a filial child in relation to a loving Subject and come to the resonance of 200 (Courage). This is to be done in the first 7 years of our life, but because of the Fall many are even below that level of development. In the course of restoration, the Old Testament era was for the purpose of leading humanity through that stage of development.

The resonance of 200 is a 'door opener'. Crossing over we come out of the low frequencies, lower feelings and lower spirit world. Up to that resonance of our hearts they can influence us freely, and once Physical Mind still is Subject over his Spirit Mind. The average of most people in the world at this stage is just a little bit above 200.

2. Perfection of our Reason (Truth)

Once a person's Heart develops to the resonance of Growth Stage (300 to 400), he enters the spiritual realm of Paradise. At that stage, suddenly he is more willing (resonance of 300) to learn the truth; he accepts (resonance of 350) to follow and practice it, and finally reaches the level of mature resonance of Reason (resonance of 400 Hz). We can also call it the Resonance of Truth. 

Note: In FR I could easily know how much a member will make during the day based on his energy level. Those below this line (200 Hz) had difficulty making good results, but once above this resonance, suddenly their mind worked much easier and their results increased correspondingly. 

This means, that his mind can now work totally free and normal; He can feel himself, function and think properly and very productively; He can even spiritually sense right and wrong. Scientists and people of faith are at that level. Why? At that stage, there is no evil spirit world interference. Thus, he can feel correctly wright and wrong according to God's absolute standard. That was the level reached only by top-level saints in Christianity.

If there was no Fall, young people should naturally grow through that stage and reach full maturity until they reach 21. On that level person's heart is very open, they are willing to live for others, yet they are vulnerable to sexual temptations; possibility to misuse these strong love sensations in a self-centered way (centered on the body). Instead, one should grow beyond, to live for others, centered on the spirit.

3. Perfection of our Will (Love)

Completion stage of Love, Joy and Peace is where one's heart resonance reaches 500 to 600. Healing energy is 550 (Joy). At the resonance of 600 (Peace), a person can impact nations, religions and races to come to peace, harmony. Such a person is becoming a Peacemaker and Messiah for millions.

Very few people can reach only temporarily that resonance through lots of spiritual practices, prayer and meditation. But touching these vibrations does not mean that he is on that level of growth. As Divine Principle explains, to enter the Completion Stage is only possible as a couple, after receiving God's Marriage Blessing. Because of the Fall that stage was blocked. Only the emergence of True Parents could open that realm for humanity. 

As we know from the Unification Thought, our Heart is the essence and the center of our Spirit Mind, where God dwells. However, we start realizing his presence and guidance in our hearts only when we mature to the completion stage:
“God is at the center of your heart… God is the root of love.. we cannot feel Him.. because He and we are one. He is one with love.. to manifest God, you have to spread your love in all four directions.”  CSG Book 1. God p.28
Completions stage is where we become parents ourselves, perfecting our unconditional love. Thus, only as a perfected couple, perfecting the family four-position foundation, we enter the realm of God's Direct Dominion (resonance of 700 and plus). The only people on that level are the True Parents of Heaven and Earth. Why? This is a level one cannot enter alone. It has to be a perfect couple, totally living for the sake of humanity and God's Will. 

How to raise our frequency

The more we live for the sake of others the higher frequency we can embody. That means, our own spirit is becoming stronger, closer to God. That means, God can more freely work though us. Living for others has many stages, starting with our family, our tribe, society, nation, world, Cosmos (including the spirit world) and finally reaching to God.

As a beginning, to raise your frequency is to stop judging everything and open for love and gratitude. Choose love, choose happiness. Be a blessing for others. You have to clear the judgments blocking you. Any judgment can limit what you're pulling in your reality. When you stop the analytical part of the brain, that's blocking you, your heart gets free to be subject. Your Spirit Mind becomes the Subject, over the Physical Mind. In this proper state even you body knows how to heal itself.

Your spirit mind has the ability to tune to the Truth (God's universal laws). Physical Mind is not. It have actually developed many wrong neurological connections that work as blockages for our spirit. A lot of us have been fed a lot of bullshit of what's true or false. I can't make this.. I'm like this.. Is that true? Clear these false judgments. You're judging things out of your life (self-centered way). Instead "I cannot", "what possibilities I can open to get reach that?" To grow beyond our physical mind limitations, we need to have absolute faith in God. 

Open your sensitivity beyond matter

Don't be mistaken, the resonance of Love, Joy and Peace is not simply physical chemistry love and joy, which humanists feel at the Formation Stage. It means that a person's heart resonates with God's Heart. At that resonance, he is a channel for God's love and effects the whole humanity in very powerful way.
"The sensibility of our spirit man is to be cultivated.. during physical life on earth.. Only when a person reaches perfection and is totally immersed in the love of God while on earth can he fully delight in the love of God as a spirit after his death." DP Creation p.49
Resonance of Peace means not only that one has total Mind and Body unity, but more important, such a person can bring all kind of people at Peace and Unity. And as you see True Father, Rev. Sun Myung Moon's whole life is a substantial incarnation of that.

That's why in his presence we all felt like flying - our Original Mind totally free from evil spirit world influence. In his presence, no evil spirit world could be present. That is why on our conferences, religious and political leaders, from all different denominations and nations, suddenly have no hatred and feel God's Heart. We were so fortuned to be able to be in the presence of the Messiah - The Lord of the Second Coming.

In 2011 True Father proclaimed, "the Settlement of the True Parents of Heaven, Earth and Humankind and the Proclamation of the Substantial Word of God came out after I, as the center, have established the realm in which full resonance in heart can occur at the same time in east, west, north and south in heaven and earth...  means everything has been done." On this base, the world is ascending into a new love-based vibrational field, leaving behind the negative impact of our fear-conditioned reality. 

Join one on one training via Skype or Zoom. Classes are conducted over 2-4 sessions per level. Write at worldofheart@gmail.com

 

Gain control over your Emotions 

The natural development of a child goes by first developing the Emotional world - absorbing everything from the environment, which is supposed to be parent's love. That's why the first few years are crucial in our development. Then rational thinking starts developing, so we learn to control and direct our emotions.

A mature person will have his will developed. In him the intellect and emotions unite totally on the purpose of the Heart. He becomes a man of character, capable of bringing actual good results. That completion stage corresponds to the level of Parental Heart, which is unconditionally giving and caring for others.

Leaders throughout history were actually down in Satan's realm, with the selfish heart of Taking; living for themselves on behalf of others; making their nations, races and religions live for themselves, on the expense of others. As we see, True Father is the only person who reversed completely these satanic patterns, teaching us to live for the sake of others on all levels. Based on his teaching new leaders with Parental heart should appear and lead the world towards God's Ideal.

When we look at the Humanistic world today, it is mostly on Formation Stage; people who are governed by emotions (Read: Origin of Humanism). That's why free sex is rampant. We see emotionally unstable people, the rise of relativism, immorality, mental problems, divorce, abused children. Today's society needs a moral revolution, spiritual revolution of Heart and Conscience. Only the revelation of the Divine Principle can make that revolution happen. We live in an exciting time of history.

Spiritual Emotions and Chemical Emotions

Why humanistic people think they are very loving. They confuse love and heart with emotions. Yet immature emotions don't even come from the spirit. They come from the Body; from the emotional part of the Brain, producing chemicals. Perfection our character means our spirit matures to dominate this physical mind functions. 

This chemical part of the brain can easily subjugate a person. Like drugs bringing the person to certain emotional state, physical chemistries come to dominate our spirit. In this immature state a person easily gets trapped under addictions. Some are addicted to falling in love - which is not loved at all. That's why their relationship cannot last - soon or later the chemistry will vanish. Humanistic people may fool themselves that they are loving, but they are simply physical mind people, controlled by emotions; people who never matured above Form Spirit. They end up loving and supporting the fallen nature in others. Such people end up in the Middle Spirit World, even if they are Church members.


Yet, if they got involved in their physical life in practices like gossiping, accusations or complains, they will end up in Hell. Even while on the earth, they had created internal hell in their heads, by constantly cycling such negative thoughts, reproducing, again and again, the same negative and resentful feelings. With the time their spirit got trapped and surrounded by such negative energy. Their hearts and spirit grow up twisted and satanic (Sanctuary Church is a good example for that). Yet they were saying, how much we love and understand each other while gossiping against others. They were simply addicted to satanic, poisonous elements that deformed their spirit. This is the state of people who lived subjugated under their Brain (Physical Mind).

Instead, we are to resonate always with God's Heart,
"If you partake of this resonance with God, then when you see someone, you will automatically be able to sense what type of person he is. Sometimes you will be able to see your own spirit man with your own eyes. Train yourself and discipline yourself to develop this capacity. If you live this way, you will be always able to act in the right way when an emergency arises." - Father On Spiritual Help
What is the Ideal, instead. We are to grow our spirit, uniting our Intellect, Emotion and Will with God's Intellect, Emotion and Will. We are to mature and become masters over our Body and Brain. We are to live for the sake of others, on higher and higher level, until we expand our Resonance of Heart to God's realm of Universal True Love. Then we will become Citizens of God's Kingdom, expanding this realm of Love Resonance in our family, tribe, community and nation. If many such people appear, their Resonance of Heart will automatically transform the whole world.

Emotional Sensitivity to God's Heart

The human heart contains intelligence independent from the brain, that guides our lives. As the Principle explains,
"Human beings are endowed with emotional sensitivity to the Heart of God.. so that after his perfection, he could breath God’s love perfectly.." - Divine Principle p. 80
Learn Heart Resonance through lectures on Unification Family Therapy. Heart Resonance Workshops are offered to encourage you to spread the message of Resonance of Heart in your family and community. Here are some short notes from our Workshops on Heart Resonance Therapy (HRT).

Resonance of heart God's love Emotion Spirit world heart resonance true love resonance peace joy
Sanctuary Church - Hyungjin: Freedom of Resentment

QUANTUM UNIFICATION RESEARCH

Resonance of heart God's love Emotion Spirit world heart resonance true love resonance peace joy

Family as the Training Ground of Love: Unification Family Therapy


Family is the 
Training Ground of Love

By YuliUTS / 2006 / Unification Family Therapy 

You have heard the words, "God is love." Where does that love manifest? In the relationships! So one person cannot manifest love all by himself. To manifest it, he has to have an object to love. Only then the flow of love can start. The place where these fundamental relationships are learned is in the Family, starting from the earliest of age.

"God's love appears in the place where the three types of love - the love of parents, of husband and wife, and of children - manifest as one. Where these come together, God is absolutely present for eternity." Sun Myung Moon, CSG p.483

All basic forms of relationships are learned in the family, through experience. For example, learning good relations with our siblings will develop our ability to relate with our colleagues. Learning to relate harmoniously, in trust with others, will be the foundation for a happy marriage. In the end, this is the needed foundation to be good parents.


"Parental love is the highest. Those who have been raised with the empowerment of true parental love become well-rounded people and understand the dynamics of love. The family is the school of love. The children will never forget their parents’ love. The full experience of parental love is impossible without parents."  (Sun Myung Moon, 1972.9.10)

What Kind of Love we have Learned 

"The love of God is expressed as parental love, conjugal love and children’s love... When  these  loves are  perfected,  happiness  is  perfected. When they are lacking, misfortune sets in." Sun Myung MoonThe Way of Love in the Family

Parents should create an environment of love and trust, not intrigues and distrust. It sounds simple, but it's the most difficult thing for most people. It takes time to develop our ability to love. It takes investing for others. Selfishness does not help here. You see how difficult it is for most couples to have joyful, harmonious and loving relationships. Any bad habit, any selfishness, any mistake can turn the cycle of relationships in the wrong direction. Only the attitude of 'give and forget' will help in such cases. 

Once you repeat several times to quarrel, react nervously to each other.. etc., it will become a habit - automatic reaction that goes on autopilot in similar situations. In this way, the Physical Mind, with its ability to help us, will suddenly become the prison for our spirit and heart.

Let point just a few bad relational habits. Once developing them it will become the main way how we fill up the time with others; the main means to create friendships; the main way we search for love.
Gossiping
Joking about others
Complaining
Accusing
Flirting

Consequences of Bad Relationships

"They  are  a textbook of love. They are a textbook of love  through  which  we  can  encounter universal  love.  Go  out  into  society  and put it into practice." Sun Myung Moon, The Family is the School of Love

I have the gift to be able to see the spiritual level of the people. I visit all kinds of spiritual realms in the spirit world. One thing is obvious for me; the place where people end up in the spirit world depends on the type of relationships they have. 

Let's say people a person is educated, clever, emotional, but he loves gossiping, where will he end up? Such a person will be in a very painful area in the spirit world, where everyone loves gossips and intrigues. Doing such things they think they trust each other, in creating this evil four-position foundation, but in fact, gossips destroy any trust, they destroy relationships. They think they are heartistic, but in fact, that's a twisted, serpent-like heart.

Please understand, such people's main method of creating friendships was through gossips and intrigues against others. They learned that from childhood. Let's say one of the parents shared displeased feelings with the child, against the other parent. For the child, these were intimate moments of love. They grow up searching for the same type of love (Poisonous). Their purpose is usually just to fill up the time; create friendship. The problem is, they don't know other means to create relationships. 

Experience: The Gossiping Realm in Hell

One day I asked God, "What's the consequence of sin?" I plead with Him that I really want to understand, not just intellectually but what it means in reality. The same night, God took my spirit to Hell. It was the Gossiping realm of the spiritual world. I have no words to describe the feeling, but it was the most painful place you can imagine. I spend few hours there, talking to people and trying to understand them. 

Something was very wrong with these people. No matter what you do, or not do, you are always accused. Whatever you say was twisted in such a vicious way.  My heart was agonizing, feeling the evil energy they produce. That's what these people did in their life. For them this resonance of heart was normal. They observed externally, accused and gossiped. 

My heart was in so much pain. But for them that's love - to share negativity, laughing and ridiculing others. These are the poisonous Vitality Elements they nurtured themselves in their physical life - so that's what they continue doing in the spirit world.

I can't imagine such evil games against each other in my own family. This will be Hell. Their very hearts were twisted. Yet, they looked clever, intelligent, heartistic, same as many of the humanistic members I know on earth. Read what's evil in Humanism. One has to be totally under his physical mind to do such things. Read, Liberate our Spirit Mind and you'll understand.

Parental Love Sets the Standard for All Forms of Love

"What should the love among children be like? What should they use as the standard for loving? Brothers and sisters should love each other just as their father and mother do. From whom should we learn about love? We should learn from our parents." (Sun Myung Moon, 1973.4.18)

"If you look at a family that has completely realized the ideal of family love... top and bottom we mean the parents and children, when we talk about left and right we mean the husband and wife, and when we talk about front and back we mean the brothers and sisters. Through what do they all become one? It doesn’t happen through power,  knowledge or money.  Than what can bring it about?  It  is  love."

Games People Play In The Family: GOSSIPING AND INTRIGUES

Games People Play In The Family

By YuliUTS /  2009  /   Unification Family Therapy

GOSSIPING AND INTRIGUES

Gossiping and Intrigues are Learned from Parents at a very early age. Don't share your pain and displeased feelings with your children in intimate moments. You don't want to twist their hearts and bring them to hell, by teaching them that 'love' is to share intimate things against others.

Those who are grown with it create the most painful hell on earth and in the spirit world. Those who are not can be drugged in the same intrigues as allies or as victims... Either way, they will be drawn to hell if they cannot overcome it in their hearts. 

Gossiping was widely spread in history. You find it everywhere in our time. I bet TF was going through that in order to liberate it... We all have to go over it! Father prayed over his son, Hyungjin, that he should take this pain of resentment, but overcome it. If we don't overcome the pain in our hearts we become resentful and start gossiping about it - spreading evil multiplication.

Read Gossip - The Poisonous Triangle of Mistrust to learn why Gossip is toxic to any work environment, that ends communication and trust

It's a bit more complicated as you get into the details. Read some of the links under the article. Manipulative people are best in treating nice others, yet spread the evilest gossip behind your back, while no one can notice they are doing it.

Those who learn Triangulation as a form of intimacy in their childhood, would naturally do it as a deep heartistic sharing and care for each other, meanwhile planting in each others' hearts the strongest poison of hatred.  Read, Gossip - The Poisonous Triangle of Mistrust

They themselves are not aware of doing it since they only want the portion of wrong intimacy, which they crave so much for. Those who want to stop this process will automatically become the target of accusations. They become easy victims since they are now pointed themselves as accusers and gossipers, despite the fact that they just want to stop those evil things.

The evil spirits perfected these evil games for thousands of years, so the good side can always be blocked and accused, while the ones doing it seem pure and good in the eyes of everyone. Evil spirits know what you know, how you think, what you can do, so they always find the way around to trick you. They directly talk and act through the gossiping person, so they know how to paralyze you, make you give up, shy back, look like the bad guy, be on the defensive.

INTRIGUES: Opening the way to Hell

 
What can you think of a world where every word you say and every action you do will be used against you? The meaning of what you said will be changed to mean something bad and every truth will be accepted as a lie… Welcome to the world of distrust! This is how Hell looks like if you did not know.

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We might have experienced that in our lives but in its purest form I experienced the effect of these intrigues by visiting Hell – in the spirit world. And believe me, the energy there completely overtakes you. It makes you suffocate in pain and agony, which is so difficult to bear.

That is a place formed on these kinds of relationships is the families of Triangulation (where parents use children to accuse each other). Thus parents will drug their beloved children in Hell for eternity. That is the reason why it is so difficult to escape from Hell - it is our identity, way of living - learned on earth. 




Intrigues and Gossiping - It is one thing to experience them in life as an adult; it is another to have been growing with it, surrounded by such an atmosphere within your own family of birth. Oh, this is pain, amazing pain for God to see such families where relationships are not based on love and trust but on vicious games of distrust, plotting against each other. Unbearable to see one accuse his spouse in front of the children. Much worse, involve the kids in these accusations. But worse is, when a parent shares his pain intimately with the child. 

What can you do when it becomes a part of their hearts; when the way they get used to receive love, to give love and create friendship is for the purpose of using it against someone else. Might be you still do not understand what I mean. So let me give you a simple example of Blessed families I observed. In one case one family, I witnessed all of the children playing one simple game. 

They used to accuse each other to obtain their mother’s attention. How pity, that was the only fast way they could get her attention. And children, we know, crave intimacy and recognition from their parents. In this case, they learned to receive it as a form of evil alliance against their brothers and sisters. From the viewpoint of the mother, she just wanted peace, so she was intervening to bring justice. As a result, she reinforced this bad behavior and was actually twisting their hearts. They learned that love is to join others on their side against someone else. Crazy! 

Don’t you think that will be the way they will behave for life? Yes, it is! The very same children were creating a friendship with other classmates in the very same way. They were saying, “you’ll be my friend if you don’t play with them”, or “I will not play with you anymore if you play with the other children”. 

That is a pure form of evil cooperation, yet that is what their parents taught them about relationship and intimacy. “Oh, big deal. They are children!”, someone would say. As my spiritual experiences with Hell show me, Hell is full of such innocent people. So I have no chance but try to really alarm your parents for not sending your children to Hell. Please! 

Let me share one more familiar type of family situation that Hell is full of. In this particular case, both parents were triangulating (transmitting their problems) to their daughter. Intimacy for her was to listen to their problems. 

When she grew up she naturally formed a friendship with people who constantly called her to share their depressed feelings. Yet, listening to their problems did not help them at all. It only temporarily blocked the voice of their conscience. In the end, most of them end up either with heavy depression, drug abuse or even suicide. And that will not be all. Her own family situation was the same. One of her brothers was heavily depressed and not talking to her because of the intrigues her gossips she created at school. The other brother was a drug addict trying to suicide. 

Before knowing these facts I was visited by her ancestors and they shared with me all the feelings of pain they felt from similar situations in their life. Thus we come to the fact that studying these problems we have to also study the reality of the ancestors in the spirit world that influence them. 

As I would try to repeat it again and again, I hope families reading this book will awake not to play such vicious games in their own homes. Please, whatever influences you from the past, do not recreate this in your family relations, do not send your own children to Hell. Parents are the ones to open the way to Heaven for their children. Continue...


 

Content:
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Three Nights in Hell
How Intimacy Can Bring Child to Hell?

Unification Theory of Personality
How do we change our understanding (concepts)?
The Model of True Parents


Spiritual Heart: Heart Resonance of CIG

Spiritual Heart: Heart Resonance of CIG, Unification Family Therapy, Psychology, Love, Power of Heart, resonance
Spiritual Heart
A path to personal, social and global coherence in building a peaceful world - CIG

by YuliUTS, Unification Family Therapy
 

Contact us for Online Courses on Heart Resonance. Join us actively changing the world. The world of heart is the world where every one can love and trust each other. The Kingdom of Heaven is the expansion of the family.. full with, peace, love and harmony

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Our hearts produce 5000 times stronger electromagnetic field, then our brain. This field extends over a mile around our bodies and quantum science today is able to measure it. Read Heart Resonance. That's why Father said that by studying these frequencies we can understand God and the spiritual laws. REV. MOON'S INSTRUCTIONS

Our Spiritual Heart is connecting us to infinite network of information. The unseen energy that the heart emits way beyond our body, influences our thoughts, actions, physical and emotional state. It makes us profoundly connected to all living things. The energy of the heart literally links us to each other. We are broadcasting this electromagnetic energy to every single cell in our own bodies, and even outwards into space. We all have that ability. In my case, I feel it consciously.

As The Divine Principle explains,
"People who are in total resonance with God's Heart will lead the natural world in the free-flowing sharing of love and beauty, and the entire universe will realize goodness." DP, Creation 6.1
We are now in the AGE OF THE UNION OF THE SPIRITUAL AND THE PHYSICAL WORLDS, Rev. Moon said. When you calm your mind your ability to work with the heart will greatly increase. We can all sense people's hearts, we feel their energy. In my case, I sense the blocks in ones energetic fiel and I can correct it's frequency consciously.

Spiritually, each person feels like a universe... and I can sense all his lineage - his ancestors, and how they relate to each other and to him. It's beautiful. We all have that ability, but it's unconscious. The moment we open our unconsciousness we can tap into this unlimited source of information. The moment we do that, we see that true loves is all that matters.

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We are all God's children and our hearts are the very place where we connect to Him. Through His love is that we connect to each other. "When God is in your heart, your heart knows it... though we cannot see God, our hearts know Him." CSG1 p.52. It is so important to learn to live in love, not fear.

Every person's heart contributes to a 'collective field environment.' Research was done, showing that those with higher resonance of heart are elevating spiritually those around them. Read, Heart Resonance

Fear gives rise to doubts, negativity and resentments, while love, opens all the bright and beautiful things in our lives. In this blessed age, we can all come to coherence with God's True Love and build substantially CIG (The Cosmic Nation of Peace and Unity). This already starts happening in some Unificationist communities. Biggest example we see at Cheongphyong lake, around True Mother.

Overcome the fallen nature of judging, to open the way for true love

Here is the challenge; "We blanket the word with judgment," Howard Martin said. "We don't even notice it, because it's so much part of us. That's what's going on in our subconsciousness." But I don't want to be in judgment. It's something that blocks us. I want to love, to be caring for people. Even if i don't agree with them, I don't want to live in judgment. Read, LIVE IN LOVE AND ABOVE

"We were born of love, so we must live by traveling the path of love." Sun Myung Moon

Study shows, this leads to feelings of frustration, a chaotic waves of the heart. Topically it happens when we are in stress and has an effect on our health and mental functioning. But when we are in coherence; in the feeling of appreciation and love, we make better decisions, function properly and in better health. Read, OUR EMOTIONAL SENSITIVITY TO GOD'S HEART

Our hearts tune to different resonance, in the same way a radio tunes into the various stations. Tuning our heart frequency to lower (selfish) or higher (unselfish) resonance will change our spiritual and physical state and health. As Rev. Moon says:
"Make yourself a tuning fork, resonating with and vibrating along God’s frequency. Resonate with God’s unselfishness." Sun Myung Moon, On Spiritual Help
This short video explains the importance of our Heart Resonance.


Scientists at the HeartMath Institute (HMI) have already conducted extensive research on the power of heart, the heart/brain connection, heart intelligence and practical intuition.

WE LIVE IN AGE of TRANSITION to CIG

Major shifts in consciousnesses are happening, big time from the beginning of 2013. It's bigger then us, bigger then the earth, bigger then the cosmos. And it's happening whether we know it or not. 

How to make this world a better place? "We are on the threshold of a new stage of social spiritual and cultural evolution" said Howard in TED. Today even scientific evidence proves that peace is possible.

Scientific study found a curious connection between how the brain and heart behave when we focus on loving, kind thoughts toward the planet, or a specific individual. It was discovered that the body is an electromagnetic instrument that can create peace at will. It is the power of our hearts, that can change the world and transform it towards God's Ideal.

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At the Completion stage of Love, our hearts resonance reaches 500 to 600 Hz. At the resonance of 600 Hz (Peace) a person can have enormous impact on all social levels towards peace and harmony. Whether personal relationships, social connections, or even the global community - we are all connected through a field of electromagnetic energy. It's true our Body resonates with our Hearts and this resonance becomes physically manifested, influencing positively or negatively our environment.

Increasing our awareness of what we bring to this field environment could be the key to creating substantially CIG, The Cosmic Nation of Peace and Unity - "One Human Family, Centered on God, as our Common Parent".
"When God is in your heart, you can break through the protective walls and communicate with the saints who died thousands of years ago.. That is why even though we cannot see God, our hearts know Him." Sun Myung Moon, CSG1 p.52
That's how I feel it. I sense God's heart towards the people; when he feels pain, or comes and embraces them with love. I can communicate freely with saints from the past. Now even science helps to understand the spiritual laws of the Heart.

HEART vs. EMOTIONS

There is a huge difference between the Spiritual Heart (sensing God's Heart and that of the people).. and the Brain producing chemistry (insensitive to others). The emotional part of the brain produces chemical drugs, that bring us into a state of certain feelings - feeling in love, or nervous, or angry.

You see now, why the struggle between Mind and Body exists. The body subjugates the physical mind under the control of chemistry (stored energy with negative resonance), and automatized bad habits. Heart subjugated under the Physical Mind, works under evil spirit world influence.

In the heart resonance chart, you see that, such state state of mind is in the low resonance of 0 to 200 Hz, where we are easily influenced by fear and doubts. Consequently, we can always be dragged to negativity and resentment.

Spiritual mind starts working more freely in resonance above 300 Hz. Here we start thinking properly, without evil spirits intervention.
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The Heart Resonance of most average people is around 200 Hz (Courage). But one persona at resonance of 500 Hz (Love) can positively change the frequency of 70 000 other people. One person at the vibration of 600 Hz  (Peace) can effect 10 million people.  Person with vibration of 700 Hz can positively impact 70 million people. That shows, that you can influence your environment, you can actually change the World. Read more...

In higher resonance we communicate through the Spiritual Heart. Your spiritual mind can connect with people, from any distance. Your Spiritual Mind is always connected to God - the vertical is not problem there! But the Physical Mind is horizontal - it's controlled by the bodily desires and the chemistry of the brain (See, How the Brain Works). We don't connect to God with our brain. Impossible! DP says,

(1) We are endowed with sensitivity to God's heart.
(2) We are given the intuition and reason to understand God's Will.

First we have to connect with God's Heart in our Spiritual Mind (our Spiritual Heart), then we try to understand it - include the horizontal analytical brain, to try understand God's Heart and God's Will. Not the other way around! Meaning, analytical brain is not the one to ask what's right and wrong. Brain is not the one to search for God. Heart is vertical - we should not violate the Heart. It always want's to live for others. Human problem was, that negative energy, produced by the body, surrounded and blocked our hearts. The Physical Mind blocked by this low, negative resonance suppressed our Spiritual Minds and thus it's ability to grow. But at this point in history people's Spiritual Heart is finally getting free. Our spirit finally can mature to dominate the body. Our Original Good Mind can finally be liberated. We live in the age of the benefits of CIG.

News: We are now offering one on one training via Skype or Zoom. Classes are conducted over 2-4 sessions per level. Please take time to comment, write questions or your personal experiences. To learn more about this research please read, Resonance of Heart


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