What is True Love? True Love is Unchanging and Evergrowing

The Way of Love

HOW DO WE KNOW TRUE LOVE: OPEN YOUR HEART TO LOVE

True Love's nature is to "give and forget" and give again and again. Yet true love will never give you something that will hurt you. But the way to recognize true love is by it's quality of being true and unchanging. If love gets cold, it is because it was not true, but selfish.

Selfish love is characterized with the attitude of using the other for our own pleasure. Once we satisfy our own physical needs we don't care to dump the partner and exchange him, as if he or she has no heart and feelings. This level of love is only physical. It is destructive, distrustful, false and highly damaging.

No money can buy that kind of true love. We have to be born in true love, live in true love and die in true love. No one can take these memories away, and they will all be in spirit world. Only then we will live there for eternity in true love. Thus we have to live our lives with such love and have beautiful memories to take to spirit world for eternity.

It is not for yourself but for the whole. That is the very nature of true love - living for the sake of others. True love is sacrificial and giving. Denying oneself for the benefit of others. It's exactly the opposite of the selfish, taking, immature love.

"Today we are living in an age when we must look at every individual and every nation as vital components of the world. In our world, there are basically two ways of life. One is the selfish way of life, and the other is the unselfish way of life where one thinks beyond himself and his family and lives for the greater purpose of the nation and the world. Throughout history, whether in the East or West, those who played important roles were public-minded or selfless persons.

The well-being of the family should come before that of the individual; the nation should come before the family; the world before the nation, and God before the world. This is the philosophy of the selfless way of life." Rev. Sun Myung Moon

As St. Paul wrote in the Bible:

13:1 If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. 3 If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned, [1] but have not love, I gain nothing.

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4 Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant 5 or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; [2] 6 it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. 7 Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

8 Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when the perfect comes, the partial will pass away. 11 When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways. 12 For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I have been fully known.

13 So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love.


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